Wow. I cannot believe that we are less than 2 weeks from the big day. It literally feels like just yesterday that we were getting engaged…
and partying it up in Portland for my bachelorette party.
Time flies when you’re having fun, I guess, right?! And, while I’ve had a few “bridal breakdowns” (I think all were money related, too!), overall I feel as though I’ve been very calm and easy going about a lot of the wedding plans.
At this point, the RSVP’s have come in, the food & drinks have been decided upon, songs have been picked and the outline of the day/night has been pretty much finalized, which means I’m mostly working on the little details: selfie station props, table number, name cards, gifts for people who have been helping out, signs for welcoming people, signs for the ceremony, signs for Instagram, signs for the selfie station …. you get it! Lots of different little things that I’ve been thinking of. and adding to my list.
Regarding decorations, I’ve always said I wasn’t a big “DIY’er” (Do It Yourself-er), but I’m finding myself doing a lot of it these days- go figure! What I do is look on Etsy, get ideas and then realize that I could do the same thing for a lot cheaper. So far, I’ve been very pleased with what I’ve done… well, except the corn hole boards. I ordered the boards from Etsy and then painted/designed them myself and am not totally in love with how they came out, but I’m hoping people will be more interested in the actual game and not the board designs 😉 If you have any suggestions for ways to spruce them up a bit, let me know! Happy to add more details, but was afraid of adding too much and then not liking it.
Regarding the signs, I have done a couple by hand, but ended up purchasing a design from Etsy, too, because it looked so good!
The dancing sign is to put near the bucket of flip flops that my mom is getting and the selfie one is for the selfie station… duh 😉 I’m so happy with how the Instagram sign came out, as well as the selfie station props that I ordered and am waiting to come in. I plan on getting frames for everything, too.
Instead of doing programs for the ceremony, I decided to do a poster with all of the necessary details:
As you can see, I’m keeping with the gold theme 😉 Plus, the top part mimics our invitations.
And, since people tend to end up using the programs as fans during the ceremony, I ended up purchasing some little accordion fans to give out to people for the ceremony. I think it’ll be a nice touch!
While we still have to finalize the seating plan, figure out the readings and write our vows (and I have to get some jewelry, have a final dress fitting, pick up few makeup pieces and other odds and ends like that), I feel like we’ve been making good, consistent progress and at this point I just can’t wait until the day is finally here! We are praying for weather like we had over the past weekend- I would be the happiest person alive if we were graced with that type of weather!
But, in all honesty, even though all of these things are nice additions to the day, I’m trying to not get too hung up on them because at the end of the day, those things don’t matter. What matters is the fact that I’m marrying my most favorite person and as long as he and I are there (ok, and all of our friends and families), that’s all that really matters. I’m not trying to get our wedding on the front page of The Knot or any other bridal site, I just want to have simple, yet classy party 🙂
If you guys have any tips, suggestions, things to remember, ways to simplify something, things you wished you had done or things you wish you wouldn’t have wasted time on doing, please let me know- I’m all ears!!
6 thoughts on “Wedding Updates: T-Minus 2 Weeks!”
Hi Nick, I haven’t seen or heard one moment of “Bridezilla” stuff–I’m so proud of you, my girl! Can’t wait for the big day.I love being able to help out in any way I can–wish you were closer. Love, Mom
thanks Mom! I’m trying really hard to not be a bridezilla so i’m glad you agree that I’m not!
So exciting!!! Everything looks amazing. Great job! One thing I wish I didn’t spend so much time on was worrying about how things would come together and fall in place on the big day. Somehow it all falls together, and people were much better than I ever anticipated at helping out, moving things along, and getting stuff done. People did so many things that I didn’t even know about until well after our honeymoon! It was really cool to hear the stories about how there were mishaps that I never even knew about because people pitched in and squashed it. That’s a long way of saying- let the people who love you guys do what they do best.. They want to help and in turn, everything will go smoothly. : )
Thanks Sam! I love that you shared that because that’s exactly how I want things to go on my day- If anything goes wrong, I dont want to know about it because then I’ll end up trying to fix it! I’m already amazed by how many people want to help out- it’s awesome!
Looks like you are well on your way to the most wonderful wedding day!! I love all of this, great job with the signs, and the boards too! We also bought little accordion fans for our guests during the ceremony (outdoors in the middle of July), and people loved them, so I think those will be a hit. As far as the day goes, my only advice is to not stress about little details or how little things come together…because in the end those little decorative details, etc. are the LAST thing that people pay attention to/remember! They’re all going to remember your dress, and the amazing time they had, not the lettering on a sign or anything like that. Just go with the flow and enjoy it my dear!!
Thanks Stephanie! I love that you used the little fans, too- I think it’s a nice touch! And you’re so right about the little details- I don’t remember that AT ALL from other weddings I’ve been to. I remember the dancing, food, the dress, etc. thanks for the reminder 🙂